Finding the reasons to keep going during and after a Burn-out

Burnouts are not the end

Burnout doesn’t arrive suddenly. It builds quietly — in the late nights, the emotional load you keep carrying, the responsibilities you can’t put down, the expectations you keep trying to meet, despite your disagreement with the strategies chosen for you. One day you wake up and realize you’re running on fumes. Your mind feels foggy, your body heavy, your motivation gone. Even the smallest tasks feel like mountains.

If you’re here, reading this, you’re likely somewhere in that landscape. And the truth is: burnout is not a personal failure. It’s a sign that something in your life has been asking for attention for a long time.

I am not telling you to push harder. This is about rediscovering the reasons to keep going — gently, honestly, and in a way that honors your humanity and your true self

1. Acknowledge Where You Are — Without Judgment

Burnout thrives in silence. The moment you name it, something shifts.

Saying “I’m exhausted”, “I’m overwhelmed”, or “I can’t keep going like this” is not weakness. It’s clarity. And clarity is the first step toward healing.

You don’t need to fix everything today. You don’t need to be strong right now. You only need to be honest.

2. Your Body Is Asking for You — Listen

Burnout is not just mental. It’s physical.

  • The tight chest
  • The shallow breath
  • The constant fatigue
  • The tension that never releases

These are not inconveniences. They are messages. Your body is not betraying you — it’s trying to protect you. When you start listening, even in small ways, you begin to reconnect with yourself.

A five-minute walk or a yoga practice.
A long exhale.
A glass of water.
A moment of stillness in meditation

These tiny acts are not insignificant. They are lifelines.

3. Strip Life Back to What Is Essential

When everything feels heavy, it’s often because you’re carrying too much. Burnout invites you to simplify:

  • What can be paused?
  • What can be delegated?
  • What can be released entirely?

You don’t need to rebuild your life today. You only need to remove what is draining you the most. Sometimes the reason to keep going is simply this: There is a lighter way to live, and you deserve to find it.

4. Reconnect With What Once Brought You Joy

Burnout disconnects you from yourself. It numbs the parts of you that used to feel alive. But joy doesn’t disappear — it just gets buried. Think back:

  • What used to make you feel grounded?
  • What made you feel creative?
  • What made you feel like you?

You don’t need to force joy. Just create space for it to return. Even a spark is enough.

5. Let Yourself Be Supported

Burnout isolates. It convinces you that you must handle everything alone. But healing happens in connection. Reach out to someone you trust — a friend, a partner, a colleague, a mentor.
You don’t need to explain everything. You don’t need to be eloquent. A simple “I’m struggling” is enough.

Let people show up for you. Let life show up for you. You are not meant to carry the world on your own.

6. Remember That Burnout Is a Transition, Not a Destination

Burnout feels final — like you’ve hit the end of your capacity. But in truth, burnout is a threshold.

It’s the moment your mind, body, and spirit say: “This way of living is no longer sustainable.”

It’s not the end. It’s the beginning of a different chapter — one with more boundaries, more rest, more alignment, more truth. Your reasons to keep going don’t need to be grand or dramatic.
Sometimes they are as simple as:

  • “I want to feel like myself again.”
  • “I want to breathe more easily.”
  • “I want to live a life that feels like mine.”

These reasons are enough. You are enough.

7. Your Future Self Is Waiting

Imagine yourself six months from now — rested, clearer, more grounded, more connected. That version of you is not a fantasy. They are the natural result of small, compassionate steps taken today.

You don’t need to know the whole path. You only need to take the next gentle step. Your future self is already reaching back toward you.

Final Thoughts

Burnout is not a sign that you’re broken. It’s a sign that you’ve been strong for too long without enough support, rest, recognition, acknowledgement or nourishment.

Finding the reasons to keep going is not about forcing motivation. It’s about rediscovering yourself — slowly, kindly, and with deep respect for your limits.

You are allowed to rest. You are allowed to change. You are allowed to hesitate and make mistakes. You are allowed to begin again and you don’t have to do it alone.

Remember : Everything will be ok in the end, and if it’s not ok, it’s not the end!

Transformation

Hello readers and followers,

I have been quite remote for a good while : I was in my chrysalis.

I changed nearly 9 months ago into the mother of a wonderful little prince and I feel that my professional life is also changing.

I feel more ready to embrace my qualification as a Kundalini Reiki Master and I am more inclined to support individuals out of their paradigms and into the light through Tarot and Oracle cards readings, aromatherapy and herbology, colorful and charged craft jewellery (malas…) , custom yoga and meditation practice and of course Ho’oponopono practicing and coaching. I am getting more confident because I know all I do comes from an authentic, loving point of view and my heart center.

So obviously my business is evolving, it is moving towards a different vibration. Now that I am also free from the rat race daily job, I can fully focus on being myself. I am supported by my partner and by my motherhood : my little boy made me my full self.

But more importantly I am fully surrendering to the Universe’s Master Plan and I am trusting that there’s a path for me.

So please forgive me for being silent and making promises of yoga classes that didn’t materialize yet,  it takes a while to adjust all the bits and make the pieces fit into the puzzle that my life is.

I am still me and I still offer my services as advertised here but expect some transformation! Because in fact I don’t believe people stay the same all their lives. We do have to remain to our true nature but essentially, organically we all renew and get reborn on a regular basis. Not only on a spiritual and emotional level do we all go through roller coaster rides, our cells get changed on a regular level. We go through cycles and we emerge different than what we used to be on a regular basis.

The common agreement is that our whole body renews itself on a cellular level every 7 years, even though each type of cell has a different renewal cycle time. I happen to believe 7 years fits me : my life gets transformed more or less every 7 years. But I recon each individual has a different chrysalis time. So please, tell me what is your cycle ?

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Embrace Change !

People who know me well would probably tell you that I am an optimist and I always try to see the good sides of situations and people. And damn straight, I am! In fact the opposite is quite daunting to me : I strongly believe that focusing on the faults and criticizing people actually bring most people on a downwards and extremely counter productive spiral of thoughts.

I KNOW for having experienced it that Positive and Mindful Thinking can look like a naive and simplistic way of looking at life; but really, for me looking at things negatively make me feel this lady’s frustration !…

(long version : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8cT_Ulmcrys )

Seriously ! Who has the luxury to be able to waste the Power of their Mind to Negativity ? (I will blog about this again in details soon : your thoughts are powerful!)… Me I’d rather spend my energy looking for Beauty. Nevertheless, as I am human, the fact is, some things really trigger me back to the shadows… And one of these triggers is what I call “immobilism” : people who really really don’t want to change anything in their lives, are devoted to the pas, traditions and routines, spend their energy into maintaining and worshiping long gone memories…

Particularly there is one sentence that I hear and really ticks me off : “we always did it like that!”If we don’t try something new, how do we know that there isn’t anything BETTER than what we always did ?  Repeating over and over the same thing “because we always did it like that” is bound to become tedious in the long run, don’t you think ? What was the best way of doing things in the 30s or the 90s is not really adaptable to today’s ways…

I ranted about French people before and here we go again: we are the most complaining and protesting people in the world in my sight and hence we are the most resistant to change ever! As French people, our reputation is that we protest and strike a lot… In France, there are laws from Napoleon’s era which, if the Government dares to want to change, drive everyone in the streets in protest! I am not saying that Laws should all be changed, a lot of the Human Rights are probably the most Universal timeless Laws ever. But do we still need laws that say that “it is forbidden to die on a commune if you don’t have a cemetery plot within the boundaries of that commune” (yes there is a law that says that…!)? And do you really think that, because the status of the Economy 50 years ago made it possible to support and aid people a certain way, it can always remain like that ? The idea that laws and rights are “acquired” forever really makes little sense…

If nothing ever changed, we wouldn’t have evolved from nothingness into an amoeba, then a mammal, then apes, then humans ! Life is CHANGE. Things evolve, this is how Nature works, so we might as well get with the new times! One definition of Death is that there is not more change in our body. Do we really want to accept a static “life” because “we ALWAYS did it like that”?

If nothing ever changed, wouldn’t our lives be boring ? Don’t you actually get the most excited when something new is coming ? I do !

If nothing ever changes, we would not integrate technology in our lives. (I can hear you think about the Amish community, but, no actually Amish are not the most amazing “immobilists” of all times in my books! They just take way longer to embrace new technologies because they spend time evaluating if it’s good for them and the simple life they aspire to, and I respect that deeply. However these very long discussions are because of our ingrained Fear of Change!

And most importantly, if nothing ever changed, we couldn’t welcome Love in our lives. I don’t think there is anything more dramatically shaking in life than falling in Love. But if we are not ready to let go of our habits and routines, Love will more likely not find its place and even more, it will not stay in our lives. Because, no matter how you see it, we need to make compromise in relationships (all of them) and, let’s face it, making compromise involves a change of the way we think.

Furthermore, if we stay the same all our lives, more likely we will have regrets, because we systematically will “live” lives that were not meant to be ours, we derive from the signs and the Path that was designed for us. Someone I call my mentor for this reason, Late Jean-Jacques Mérie, a beautiful and multi-talented being, told me this very little, seemingly insignificant phrase when I was a teenager and it blew my mind and changed the way I saw my life. He said : “In the end of your life, you need to be able to say to yourself : “I did some good to myself!””.

This reminder to avoid having regrets is thoroughly and intrinsically linked with the connection I have with Change. I see change as a passing, an evolution, a transformation. I choose to see Change as a Positive Thing.

The way I look at it is very well summed up by the simple words of Jim Rohn :

I’m not sure why these words made so much sense to me when I first read this, but what I really mean by this is : YOU ARE THE MASTER OF YOUR LIFE, ONLY YOU CAN MAKE IT BETTER! So welcome the Transformations and the Changes in your life with Joy : they might be difficult times but they are Gateways to wonderful new situations !…

I would really like you to comment on this and start discussions : what changed your life ? What brought you to step out of a dark downwards spiral of doubt or depression ?